Something’s Missing!
In a bustling, crowded scene, certain elements must be firmly embedded in your visual memory to be noticed when they’re absent. I must admit that if I were a teenager growing up in this era, I would likely have a smartphone and a tablet, as I consider myself a bit of a tech geek. However, I would not be very active on social media, as that does not align with my personality.
While reviewing my archived photos of a courtyard lunch crowd in Madrid, Spain, taken during a 2014 trip, I was struck by the absence of something commonly seen in current American lunch scenes: cell phones and other electronic devices. This was 12 years ago, so it would be interesting to return to Madrid and see whether these devices have become as prominent during meals in Spain as they are currently in America.
Courtyard Lunch #1, Madrid, Spain @Jun2014 (Photo Processed by Conventional & AI Tools)
Courtyard Lunch #2, Madrid, Spain @Jun2014 (Photo Processed by Conventional & AI Tools)
Courtyard Lunch #3, Madrid, Spain @Jun2014 (Photo Processed by Conventional & AI Tools)
Courtyard Lunch #4, Madrid, Spain @Jun2014 (Photo Processed by Conventional & AI Tools)
Today in America –
“You see people in restaurants all the time who are sitting across the table from each other, and instead of staring at each other, they’re staring at their phones,” says Dwyer, a doctoral candidate in psychology. “We were really curious: Is it having an impact on people’s social interactions, how much they’re enjoying the time they’re spending with other people? Phone use during a meal led to a modest but noticeable decrease in diners’ enjoyment, according to research.” – Time / Health
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So true! The connection between people is lost once a phone or other device comes out. Make me sad.
You’re so tight, it astounds me when people choose a time and place to meet and share a meal, yet spend most of the time on their phones instead of talking to each other. Thanks, Pepper!
Yes. I live near campus and spend time on the campus and in the local coffee shops so I do see the students (and older folks, too) using their phones constantly. People walk, ride bicycles and scooters with their face glued to their screens. They also are usually wearing earbuds or headsets. Seems it’s impossible to have interactions with people or the world we are a part of when we are not present to the moment. We are missing out!
I’m unsure what the long-term effects will be, but I believe there will be some negative psychological and social consequences.