A few thoughts for today ( click photo for larger image ):

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– To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.  ~e.e. cummings, 1955

– He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.  ~Raymond Hull

– All the mistakes I make arise from forsaking my own station and trying to see the object from another person’s point of view.  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

– All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory.  I was naïve.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself.  ~Ralph Ellison, “Battle Royal”

– The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another.  ~James Matthew Barrie

– Most people are other people.  Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.  ~Oscar Wilde, De Profundis, 1905

– We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.  ~François Duc de La Rochefoucauld

– Learn to… be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not.  ~Henri Frederic Amiel

– Men weary as much of not doing the things they want to do as of doing the things they do not want to do.  ~Eric Hoffer

People often think they’ve been themselves until a point in life where it becomes apparent to them they haven’t.  You then see major career, status, location and lifestyle changes.

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